I was hoping that by the end of this week I could write about an update we had received or news that more of our paperwork had been completed. At this point, it doesn't seem like that is going to happen. Many of you have asked us how things are going and why we now think March will be our travel time when we had originally hoped for January. So, I will do my best to fill you all in.
We received our referral for Mia on August 6th and submitted our Letter of Intent (LOI) on August 7th. The next step, our LOA (Letter of Approval) issued by the China Center for Adoption Affairs (CCAA), on average takes 60-90 days. Ours took 101. Then, we waited for our I800 approval on the US side of things. It normally takes about 2 weeks. Ours took 32 days. Next, the approval is "cabled" to the US Consulate in Guangzhou. At this point, we are waiting for our Article 5. The wait for this is normally 2 weeks, 3 at most, and we are on day 23. After Article 5, we should receive our Travel Approval (TA) in approximately 3 weeks. As you can see, we have been above average on all of our wait times. Yes, they are just averages, someone is always below and someone always above. :) At this point, we are also running into the Chinese New Year holiday. We are hoping to receive our TA before everything shuts down (approximately 2 weeks) in China. It is not likely, but we are still hopeful. At the point we receive travel approval, we will travel 2-3 weeks later. At this point, mid-March is the best guess. We have also been requested to update our fingerprints since they expire March 23rd and have to be valid up to one week post consulate appointment. The consulate appointment is when Mia receives her visa. (I think) :)
So what does all this mean? We need to pray! That is the only thing we can do. I have written out some prayer requests below. Please join us in praying for this process and for our precious Mia. Her 2nd birthday is March 27th. All of you know how much we want to be with her that day. I didn't think we would get this close to missing it.
We did send her a care package that she received last week, (picture above) but are unable to get an update and new pictures of her right now. :( We sent it the 2nd week of December - it took USPS 1 month to get it there. Urgh!
Prayer requests:
Please pray for me to have patience and peace. This process is so hard and it can easily begin to take over every aspect of life. I jump when the phone rings, check email about 8,000 times a day. Packing and to do lists are never far from my brain. My boys need me here, now. I need to let it go and be at peace that this will happen when God is ready, not on my schedule. Tears don't make someone in China work any faster. :)
Please pray for our little girl. In all of the pics we have, she looks healthy and happy. Pray for her continued health. Please also pray that she is being prepared for our coming. At 2, she won't understand, but seeing the photo albums we have sent will allow us to be familiar to her. We pray that the nannies are showing her the photos and calling us "mama and baba".
Please pray for the boys. They have been so patient. They are so excited and they are starting to ask "when" more often. I took them to the aquarium on Monday and I could have counted about 50 times when they said, "when we bring Mia, when Mia is home". It is so sweet. They are ready.
A few months ago, I was having a conversation with two moms who have been through this. They said something to me that I have to remind myself of every day. They told me to not rush this time. For Mia. There may be reasons unknown to us for this seeming "delay" in our travel. Maybe she needs a little longer to have some understanding of what is happening, maybe a special bond is forming with a nanny, maybe she has a little buddy that needs her for a little longer. And maybe, just maybe, even at her young age, a memory will be made that she will keep forever. And that is worth the wait.
God's time - not ours. Please pray for this truth to go deep within us. We need it.