Monday, March 8, 2010

Gotcha Day for the Jennings!!!

Hey there! It's Keith writing this time around. As I type this, it is 9:30 p.m. in Guangzhou and Tracy is snuggling in the bed with her scared little daughter who is trying soooo hard NOT to fall asleep.

I could write a book, but I want. At least not tonight! I do, however, want to share THE BIG DAY with you with some photos and narrative.

As we began our day, I don't think any of us anticipated how nervous we would be today. Everyone had butterflies. We knew we had one thing going in our favor - 8 is the luckiest number in Chinese culture, and today is March 8th.

Okay, so let me start with the obvious. She is BEAUTIFUL!!!

We arrived before she did and had to wait. Numerous families are in a large room in the Guangzhou Civil Affairs office, receiving their child one-by-one. The best way to paint the scene is this: lots of excited talking making an indistinguishable roar, LOTS of screaming babies and a few hyper siblings dashing across the room from time to time. It's sensory overload, but wonderful.

Here's what she looked like coming out to meet us.



This is when she sees us.



Here she is meeting us and checking us out.





Our first photo as a new family...



And then...

She started crying. And grieving. And she cried for the rest of the time we were there. And most of the way home.





And then...

She started checking out her new toys.







We ordered her conjee for dinner, since that's what she's been eating.

She hated it! And wouldn't open her mouth to eat it.

But she gobbled down two bowls of spaghetti!



We peeled five, yes five, layers of clothes off her. She had endured a three hour drive to meet us today and was in a soaked diaper by the time we got her home.

We didn't change her right away in order to give her space and let her warm up and begin to trust us. But she sure looked cute once we got some girly clothes on her.



Here's her spaghetti face...



As you would imagine, Mia has two VERY proud brothers.





As you know, we have kept her Chinese name, Fu Jia, as her middle name. We're spelling it Fujia, as is common when using Pinyin spelling. However, we have been pronouncing it using Mandarin tones: "foo-jyah." We learned today that using the Cantonese tones, her name is not pronounced "foo-jyah." It's pronounced kind of like "fuh-guy."

Mia has attached to Tracy in a big way. It will take a while for her to learn to trust me, but it doesn't bother me at all. This is what we expected and is a VERY healthy response. As hard as it is to watch her heart break and see how scared she is, she is proving to be a very strong girl with a great capacity to love. At this point, she just needs time.

And we've got plenty of time to give.

In case you are wondering, we have great Internet and email access. So we've been reading your blog comments and email messages, and really appreciate the support, encouragement and prayers you've given us. Keep 'um coming!

Stay tuned for more updates. We are here for the next two weeks. We have more paperwork, medical appointments, etc. ahead.

19 comments:

  1. OK...........I'm trying not to cry here! I am so happy for you guys! She's just precious, and sad too. What a hard day for her. We've been praying for you guys and are just so happy to know that Mia is now in your arms!

    Debbie & Ruben

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  2. YEA!!! I am so happy for you guys! She is BEAUTIFUL!!! Your Gotcha Day narrative brought back so many memories!!! Enjoy these next two weeks!

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  3. I am crying, just balling reading this. She is beautiful! What an incredible day for your family. We are praying for Mia, and for your whole family, and for her past caregivers as well, and sending lots of love your way. We are so happy that you have her now- enjoy!

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  4. ...I should know not to read these things while at work...the 'got something in my eye' excuse doesn't quite work when both eyes are red...:-)

    What a cutie! We are so excited for you and are praying for all of you!!!

    Congratulations!!!

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  5. Thanks for sharing your experience with us! I have looked so
    forward to your pics and notes. She is adorable!

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  6. She is just beautiful- I remember Michelle's Gotcha day- it is such a wonderful time - coming together as a family. I am sure the boys will have her tickled and giggling in a short period of time. I think your boys are some of the sweetest nicest kids and I know that Mia is going to enjoy her life trying to keep up with them. We are praying for you all and thank you for posting pics. Lovely

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  7. What a perfect addition to your precious family!! It's just thrilling to see her sweet face in your family photos!!! An answer to prayer indeed! She is a doll and will discover with each passing day how very blessed she is to be a part of your loving family! And of course how very blessed y'all are to have her! What a joy to share in your excitement!!!!!

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  8. "emmajake" is from the Tucker family - Mandy, Brian, Emma Kate, Jake and Sam! Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you!

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  9. Praise God from whom all blessings flow...she is so beautiful! So wonderful to see you all as a family. Much love from Atlanta.

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  10. What an exciting time. God is good. Thanks for sharing this experience.

    Chad and Carlyn

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  11. All I can say is WOW and Congratulations!!! She is gorgeous. Thank you for sharing this journey with everyone. I'm so happy and excited for you. Lots of prayers and best wishes for a wonderful time in China and a safe trip home. I know everyone back home is anxious to meet her!!

    Faith

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  12. CONGRATULATIONS guys!! I am so excited for you and have been anxiously awaiting news ever since I met you guys at the Jackson dinner in January and heard your story. She is absolutely beautiful and is a very lucky girl! Safe travels the rest of your stay.

    Melissa Starr
    (Thomas Starr's wife from JHS)

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  13. I was with a friend at Applebee's yesterday and in the middle of a sentence I remember that today was Monday and immediately burst out with a great big "OH! Tomorrow is Monday! Tomorrow is Mia Day!" My thoughts are with you and I am so excited for this new leg of the adventure you are all now embarking on! Can't wait to hear more updates!

    ~Meigan

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  14. Congratulations to you all!! Mia is absolutely adorable! I love the story you told and the pictures you shared of your first day with her! I can't wait to meet Mia...she is one lucky little lady to have been blessed to become part of your wonderful family!

    Christy O'Connor

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  15. How wonderful! I am so happy for you. What a terrific day--thanks for sharing this with us.

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  16. Congratulations! She is precious and a perfect addition to your sweet family! Enjoy every moment!

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  17. As I write this I am OVERWHELMED with tears, emotion and PURE JOY! She is GORGEOUS and you ALL FIVE are BEYOND blessed! You have all been in our prayers....but to see God work in this mysterious way is beyond anything a prayer could EVER cover. I am so happy for you...words can't express! God is amazing...all He does for those who are faithful to Him. Rest in His promises and His faithfulness; YOUR DAUGHTER IS BEAUTIFUL! Welcome home, little Mia! We all love you and can't WAIT to meet you!!! <3

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  18. Who's that old blonde lady (Tom's words) in the pictures? She looks cold!! Tom, Pat and I are just checking on Pam! Congratulations to you ALL! Mia is precious! You sure do have a beautiful family!

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  19. What sweet words to read. I have tears flowing down my cheeks. She is a lucky girl to have such a wonderful mama. Isn't it interesting that you lost one "lucky girl" in the past year and gained a new one... God is wonderful like that! We are all praying for your entire family at bible study! Mia is just beautiful and we cannot wait to meet her! Congratulations to you all, Tracy!

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